Self appearance / being confident Q&A

Wrote by Unknown 12/06/2015 1 Comment

Hello friends so lately i've been requested to actually do a blogpost about How one can be Confident of themselves therefore , today's blog will be something new but cool AND special so yea , continue reading on if you want to know more about how to be confident about your self appearance :-)

( Questions will be taken from my Ask.fm * some you may have seen before if you follow me on ask but i just want to elaborate on it more so .. * ) Btw if you haven't already checked out my new vid , do so after reading !!! :-) LINK : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qT5r2yPhzKM

Firstly , you have to stay true to yourself and don't be afraid. You should NEVER EVER listen to what others or even your FRIENDS have to say about you . Wear whatever makes you feel COMFORTABLE in , whatever you LOVE , whatever makes you feel CONFIDENT in! These 3 words are the MOST important in order to be confident about your self appearance. Just get what you love . Let's say you're shopping in town then you walked past Topshop and saw this beautiful dress , just go in , try it on it doesn't cost any single cent to try on anyways , if you love it , get it . Seriously just get it . You should always spend the right amount of money on the right amount of cloth or type of material that piece of clothes has. * shopping tip *

Secondly , you are never too young to start applying make up as long as you're a growing teen. Honestly , making up is really fun but NOT when it comes to clearing them lol. Anyways , for this question , in order to convince your mum into letting you wear makeup tell her that you're old enough to apply make up and you want to TRY OUT new things. Making up is NOT a crime or anything it's just something that MOST girls in this world do when you're bored / to build your SELF-CONFIDENCE which is pretty cool don't you think so? If your mum is still not convinced into you applying on make up , just briefly explain to her that making up helps to build your self confidence and makes you LOVE yourself even more. ( but please don't be self-obsessed )

Thirdly , me myself don't have PERFECT or FLAWLESS skin either. My acne always pop out of nowhere and yes it can get very irritating ( i feel you ) but just don't ever touch it or poke them because you'll leave an ugly scar on your face. I used to be very ashamed of my own skin like oh this acne needs to go and stuff but later on , i realised that SO WHAT if i have acne on my skin , NO ONE have PERFECT or FLAWLESS skin so i shall just heck care about it . One day i'll go out without makeup i promise this day will come :) .Look, tell me who would actually judge you for your IMPERFECT skin ? i mean if they really do ( especially your friends ) then they aren't your real friends because if they are , they should ACCEPT you for how you look and what TYPE of person you are . After all it's VERY important to treat others how YOU yourself want to be treated by others keep that in mind.

Ye that's me . My forehead has a lot of acne and this pic was taken after my facial. I'm never afraid to show my friends who i'm really am ( you can ask my friends , i snap them my unglams with my acne on my face lololol ) but of course i did complain to them that the red dots need to go ASAP but they can't do anything right so just have PATIENCE , apply what is given , wash your face 2 times a day ( Day Nd Night ) , apply toner and moisturiser .

Some of you has been asking me what face products I usually use so here you go :

After a week those small little acne are gone but 2 just popped up recently , one on my nose the other one on my forehead ugh but whatever :) #NoMakeup

Fourthly , you should ALWAYS feel GOOD about yourself when you stand in-front of a mirror whether you're home or out in the mall, you should ALWAYS feel GOOD about yourself. NEVER EVER think that you're not good enough , skinny enough , pretty enough or handsome enough or tall or whatever it is , throw those NEGATIVITY in your mind away and THINK POSITIVE . Always remember that god created you for who YOU are today and he created everyone else differently. Imagine this world with the same type of people all over , that'll be pretty boring. Seriously just imagine seeing or meeting someone that reassembles you a lot .. that would be SOOOO WEIRD & pretty uneasy for you to see yourself most of the time. Think POSITIVE.

Lastly , i personally think that it's very important to believe in yourself . Trust me when you start being yourself and STOP COMPARING yourself to others that's when you'll feel SO GOOD about yourself and be like " i'm actually perfect enough " . Last but not least , this world is f**ked up and you CANNOT be weak . Always remind yourself " i'm the bomb , i look good today so i'm going to kick everyone else's ass " before going out :-) Ultimately, your INDEPENDENCE comes from knowing who you are and you being HAPPY with yourself.